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You can resolve "offences" with peace and confidence.

Q: Bullied for Over a Year (Submitted by Susan):

I have been bullied for over one year now. Rumors and lies follow me at church but I will not leave. I believe God put me there for a reason and despite everything, I love my church. I know who is behind the bullying and yes, it hurts. It is painful and leaves its own kind of scars, but I am strong. The bullying consists of sending out emails that are filthy…spoofing my address so that church members actually believe I did this. My friends are being targeted and I am being isolated. It is okay. I serve a God who sees and hears. I trust He will use this for good.

A: The Two Absolute Rules for Resolving Offences

Susan, I’m really sorry to hear about this, and I appreciate you posting this here.

Good for you for putting your relationship with God—and your ability to stay and influence change for good—above the personal hurt you feel!

May I offer a couple of suggestions? These come from my life in the LDS church (Mormons) and also as a executive coach. The following two principles have a huge impact on our own sense of peace—and they are powerful for influencing others around us. Continue Reading »

The more I understand truths in science and truths in religion, the fewer apparent contradictions I see. Sometimes, by comparing truths in these areas, we see stunning parallels and hints of eternal realities undergirding our existence.

Disclaimer: I’m not trying to prove religion by appealing to science. That would just as absurd as trying to prove science via a public opinion poll. I’m also not “speculating.” In my experience, “spiritual” truths are known by revelation and only by revelation, from God to us, and in no other way. I share this as my way of getting a better handle on patterns and parallels I think I see. By discussing and pondering these things, “studying them out in your mind,” I’ve found that it opens the door to further light and knowledge, if we are willing to ask, especially as it relates to principles of life and salvation.

With that in mind, here is my reply to a recent letter from my daughter.

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Dad,

Can you send me the link to the article on gravity and intelligence that you mentioned the other day? I’m having a blast talking with my roommate’s brother about scientific experiments (string theory, quantum physics, etc) and the gravity thing came up.

Remind me next time I call to tell you about fractal theory as it relates to evolution and about matter acting like a wave at low temperatures.

Laura.

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Laura,

Here it is: http://www.sciencenews.org/view/feature/id/63190/title/A_New_View_of_Gravity

The real insight that came to me from this relates to the nature of any eternal existence of intelligent beings.

This requires some backround first. I’m sorry, I don’t have time to arrange these better, so they may come across as scattered thoughts. Forgive the incomplete and scattered nature of these ideas. I gather them here so someone can come along later and pursue this line of thought further.

Entropy and Intelligence

This Science News article begins to decribe entropy in terms of information theory (see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Information_theory, there is that word “entropy” again), and that has interesting implications about eternal existence. This new theory of gravity seems to emerge naturally when information theory and entropy are considered re: the amount of information present in the universe itself, as if the universe is a giant quantum computer.

Consider information and intelligence. “Intelligence” cannot be created or made, it is as eternal as matter (D&C 93: 29, D&C 93: 33). “Intelligences” are discrete, they are conscious, and they are, in part, collectors of information (Abr. 3: 18-19, 21-22, D&C 93: 29-30, 36). “Conscious” seems to me to mean that they have agency to act upon that information and therefore gather and create more information. “Agency” is an aspect of intelligence which is fundamental to its existence or continuance (D&C 93: 30). where “intelligence” is defined as the “light of truth,” (D&C 93: 29-30, 36) “light” is identified with “whatsoever doth make manistest” (Eph. 5: 13, see also http://scriptures.lds.org/en/dc/88/11-13#7), and “truth” which is “knowledge of things as they are, and as they were, and as they are to come” (D&C 93: 24). “Agency” is essentially the capacity of an intelligence to act independently, for itself, and interact with other intelligences and matter/energy. Note that by this definition, “truth” has no existence without something to “know” or discern it. Reality “is,” but truth has to be “known”–it is something that makes no sense except in the context of an “intelligence” to measure and record it.

Truth and information are therefore similar, connected, or synonymous, at least within our 4-dimensional universe. Intelligences and information are therefore connected, and you could think of entropy as it relates to systems of intelligences.

An Ideal, Most-Harmonious Existence

Therefore, this was the realization that came about all these things: A “celestial” existence in LDS theology could be viewed as analogous to the lowest-possible entropy existence for an expanding system of “intelligent” beings. (See Wikipedia “Entropy” article: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Entropy.) You have the most information about the state of that “system” or “sociality” (you can predict its state and future with the most precision), it is the most highly ordered, therefore you can rely on its future state and you can accomplish the most “work” with it, as opposed to any other system or mode of interaction of intelligences. In other words, all other modes of interaction (“kingdoms,” see D&C 88: 21, 36, 38) of intelligent beings are less ordered, less harmonious, less “information”-capable, and less capable of doing effective “work” because of the very nature of the types of interactions they engage in (their modes of expressing their “agency”). Therefore they are “weaker.” The less compliant we are with eternal law, the higher the entropy, the less information you have about the system, the less you can rely on it, so the “weaker “it is in comparison to other socialities.

Relationship to Entropy (or Disharmony)

It seems to me that therefore, it might even be possible to prove mathematically (since the second law of thermodynamics is simply mathematics), that in harmony with that law there is a minimum-entropy condition for an expanding (increasing in number) sociality of intelligences (analogous to a system of particles) that are capable of interacting in certain, defined ways. Such a state must inevitably have well-defined laws or rules about what interactions may take place which ones do not (because those interactions would increase the entropy). We could call those “commandments.” To ensure that entropy remains stable and constant, this system must act somewhat like a self-contained, isolated system (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isolated_system) in at least some ways–other intelligences would not be able to enter it at will without increasing the entropy of the system. Intelligences within it would need to act in harmony with those laws of minimal entropy or they could not remain; otherwise, the existence would be disrupted, entropy would increase, information reduce, and the state “sociality” would become weaker.

Mortality allows us to learn from our own experience, the good from the evil. Note that this experience is collective and not just individual. (I can learn from Hitler’s mistakes without making them myself.) Based on that, we can also see from long human experience that kingdoms divided within are weaker than kingdoms which are not divided (Matt. 12: 25).

The Actual Nature of the Celestial Kingdom

We know some things about how intelligences interact in a Celestial existence. It is absolutely separate and distinct from other kingdoms (D&C 76: 112) based on whether or not the intelligences within it comply with the laws that define it (D&C 88: 21-25, 36, 38, 78). They are of “one heart and one mind” (Moses 7: 18), they interact and exert influence “without compulsory means” (D&C 121: 46), and there is maximum sharing of information among them (2 Ne. 30: 17, D&C 130: 10), and in fact they have access to all possible information, past, present, and future (D&C 130: 7). “Knowledge is power” Joseph Smith said, and “A man is saved no faster than he gets knowledge, for if he does not get knowledge, he will be brought into captivity by some evil power in the other world.” All this reinforces the concept that a celestial existence is eternally stable because it is internally sound, strong, and harmonious as possible. “Never-ending happiness” (Mosiah 2: 39, 41) is an essential part of such an existence, probably and precisely because of the incredible harmony that exists there. What causes the unhappiness in this world? Think of something that causes it, then ask yourself if that cause can’t be classified as disorder, disharmony, and/or lack of truth and intelligence. In a word, “entropy.”

Tying It All Together

The plan of salvation therefore, mathematically speaking, could be viewed as the plan which makes it possible for intelligences to collectively group and function in the highest-possible-harmony (lowest-possible-entropy) state. All non-celestial existences (all other possible socialities) are less ordered, higher entropy, and inherently socially weaker.

“Thought Experiment”

There are a lot of conjectures here, nothing here is rigorous, but a physics-like thought experiment is interesting here. Since there are different social states for intelligent beings with various degrees of harmony and “entropy,” there must be one which is most harmonous, lowest entropy, highest work potential, most stable, so it would not be at “risk” or danger from any other sociality because if its strength. Suppose (hypothetically) that such a maximally-strong sociality met another maximally-strong sociality. Is there a risk of clash? No. They would discover that they were the same (founded on the same laws and principles), so they would be perfectly harmonious together–one and the same–so they would effectively be united already, therefore they were not really different in the first place, so there is no threat. Therefore, a minimum entropy celestial existence would be stable and never at risk from another “kingdom” of any kind.

Dad

P.S. Consider also these verses of scripture in light of the laws and principles above: D&C 88: 40 (“intelligence cleaveth unto intelligence”). D&C 130: 18-19 (princples of intelligence we attain unto in this life remain with us), etc.

P.P.S. Interesting note. The concept of a harmonious sociality that is stronger than all other possible societies was discussed by Isaac Asimov (a strong atheist) in his book Foundation and Earth. Though I dislike his portrayal of it, some elements of his utopian society do parallel those of a celestial or terrestrial existence.

In a fun-to-read blog article, Darth Vader (Star Wars) and Samantha Carter (Stargate TV series) conspire to destroy the solar system.

The result: A paradox.

But actually, not. There is no paradox, and the reasons have profound spiritual implications. Don’t believe it? Read the article (and my reply!) to see if you agree: Count Infinity: It Never Happened

(TALCA, CHILE) Our son, Jason Crenshaw, is located in Talca, Chile, in the closest and possibly the hardest-hit large city near the epicenter of Saturday’s 8.8-magnitude earthquake.

Astonishingly, amidst all the downed infrastructure, we got a brief message from him Saturday afternoon, then another one this morning asking us to call him, as he had permission to call family. We did so, and here is a summary of his report, to the best of my memory.

Reality “On the Ground” the First Night

Elder Jason Crenshaw and his missionary companion, Elder Mark Roberts, were awakened by the shaking around 3:30 am and immediately ran outside their one-story cement-based home. Standing was impossible. They sat on the ground, which shook side-to-side and then in circular motion, but not up-and-down. It seemed to him that the worst shaking lasted 5 minutes, but then it continued at a lesser intensity, nonstop, for a total of around 33 minutes.

During it all, the earth made deep groaning noises, and repeatedly made a sound: “like a dog makes when it half-barks and half-bites you; imagine that sound, only being made by a huge monster, over and over.”

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An old friend in Australia asked me recently about my children’s experiences with bullying in school, and whether it happens in LDS denominational schools.

Our discussion started because of this tragic article (caution: some PG-13 content). Some people commented that not only was the bullying a problem, but Brodie’s handling of the bullying was a big issue. Who was watching out for her? Was she ever taught to be assertive? Why was she so emotionally vulnerable?

A Christ-Centered Response

My children did get some bullying in public schools, but they got detailed, careful training from me on how to handle it without resorting to bullying themselves or being stepped on too badly.

Where did I learn those skills? By being bullied myself in junior high and high school in public schools, and most importantly, by getting careful coaching from my father.

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To my friend Jacob Pitt on his 19th birthday

Jacob,

You asked for my “best advice” on your 19th birthday as you prepare to leave on your mission. Here it is:

1) A copy of a letter I recently wrote to Jason on his mission,
2) A book,
3) A few supplemental comments,
4) One more book, and
5) One final comment.

I hope this will help in your “quest of a lifetime” that will only end when we meet before the Lord at that great and last day. (See Boyd K. Packer, “Introduction,” Endowed from on High: Temple Preparation Seminar Teacher’s Manual, iv.)

I know that if you will follow this advice the Lord will bless you with “exceeding great and precious” blessings.

Kevin Crenshaw

The Letter

The best advice always comes from through and from the Holy Spirit. Everyone needs something different. The Spirit can tell us precisely what we need. The question is, will we listen? Will we obey? (Will we “hearken?”)

With that in mind, I start with a letter I recently wrote to my son Jason on his mission.

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I sent out the following email today:

On its official www.lds.org web site, a letter from the First Presidency of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints requested the “best efforts” of Church members to support the marriage protection amendment in California. Such a statement is unusual for the LDS Church, which recognizes this as a serious moral, non-political issue:

“We ask that you do all you can to support the proposed constitutional amendment by donating of your means and time to assure that marriage in California is legally defined as being between a man and a woman. Our best efforts are required to preserve the sacred institution of marriage.”
(http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/commentary/california-and-same-sex-marriage)

The letter was read only to California congregations, but it doesn’t specifically limit the request to them; it appears on the LDS web site for anyone to read and consider. (See DC 58:27-8.)

What happens in California affects the entire US. For that reason, a few large, out-of-state donors are heavily funding the effort to make same-sex marriage the law in California. By contrast, protecting marriage is more of a grass roots effort. See yesterday’s AP news article:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/gay_marriage_money

I can’t sit idly by and watch this happen. However, as a non-Californian I wasn’t sure how to help until now.

What You Can Do

You do not need to be a California resident to make a big difference.

As I’ve analyzed this, I conclude that we must act NOW, in the next 2 or 3 days. I personally recommend the following: Continue Reading »

One thing I learned watching my father was the importance of teaching your children. My dad did this in a relaxed way in day-to-day conversation, more formally around the dinner table, and sometimes by issuing logical or theological challenges that left us thinking—and talking.

My father has a great command of words as well as ideas, which made for quick, memorable lessons. I remember many of these, but my favorite (which I’ve shared with others many times) is the “Parable of the Teargas Grenade.” Perhaps this was most meaningful because it was true, funny, and applied to my situation with laser-targeted accuracy.

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In studying the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I encourage everyone I know to ask detailed questions and learn all they can. This, of course, in addition to the supernally-important process of praying and asking God for heavenly guidance.

Asking questions is the best way to get good answers, and there are many excellent resources on the Internet. Unfortunately, there is also a flood of misinformation. So where to look for accurate answers? The LDS Church Web site is doctrinally rock-solid. Another resource I like as a starting point for answers to more difficult questions is JeffLindsay.com. He does his research and is usually a careful thinker (in my opinion), he’s been linked to by the LDS web site on an issue or two, and he even has a sense of humor! Not a bad combination. However, perhaps the most scholarly approach is provided by the Maxwell Institute. Their articles are deep, insightful, and often peer-reviewed.

Temples, Respect, and Reverence

But what of the LDS temple ordinances, which members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints hold as so sacred that they do not discuss them in detail outside the LDS temples? Special care should be taken when treading on this sacred ground for reasons of our own spiritual growth, propriety, and plain old-fashioned brotherly kindness and mutual respect. Continue Reading »

Years ago, while strolling across the BYU campus with a non-religious co-worker, I mentioned that I had majored in physics there and loved the sciences. Her reply betrayed a prejudice that I think is widespread today.

“I imagine it must have been hard for you to be religious and study science at the same time.”

My reply startled her visibly. I said something like this: “Not at all. I’ve found that truth is truth, wherever it is found. Truth in science never contradicts truth in religion. Conflicts only come from things we falsely assume to be true—false science or false religion.” Continue Reading »

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